Don’t lose heart if it’s very difficult at times, everything will come out all right and nobody can in the beginning do as he wishes.

A lot of the time, love feels like it’s about figuring out what the other person wants and giving it over. Sometimes that’s impossible. But sometimes it’s pretty simple.

That’s the thing with magic. You’ve got to know it’s still here, all around us, or it just stays invisible for you.

Everyone sees what you appear to be, few experience what you really are.

合縁奇縁 | aienkien

(noun) A Japanese untranslatable idiom, aienkien is defined as an expression used to describe an uncanny relationship. It characterizes a couple who met by a quirk of fate, but are strangely happy and deeply bonded by their unusual attraction and course of destiny. 
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I understand how easy it would be to lose yourself in the heart of another. It‘s frightening. Exhilarating. An ocean with no lifeguard.

Sarah Ockler, Fixing Delilah
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she doesn’t belong to anyone and i think that’s the most divine thing about her. she’s found love within herself and she’s complete alone.

Love out of passion,
not out of loneliness.

Love the person,
not the idea of them.

Love who they are,
not who you want them to be.

Love with compassion,
not with judgement.

Love unconditionally,
not only when it’s convenient.

thehelmthatguidesyou (via wnq-writers)

And love,
Just love.

Think of the first time you slept with someone, or the first time you fell in love: that blinding explosion that left you crackling to the fingertips with electricity, initiated and transformed. I tell you that was nothing, nothing at all, beside the power of putting your lives, simply and daily, into each other’s hands.

I ask for nothing. / In return I give All. / There is no earning my Love. / No work needed, no effort / Save to listen to what is already heard, / To see what is already seen. / To know what is already known. / Do I seem to ask too little? / Would you give although I ask not? / Then this you can give me and I will accept. / I will take your heart. / You will find it waiting for you / When you return.

Ki Longfellow, Flow Down Like Silver: Hypatia of Alexandria
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When animals express their feelings they pour out like water from a spout. Animals’ emotions are raw, unfiltered, and uncontrolled. Their joy is the purest and most contagious of joys and their grief the deepest and most devastating. Their passions bring us to our knees in delight and sorrow.

Marc Bekoff, The Emotional Lives of Animals: A Leading Scientist Explores Animal Joy, Sorrow, and Empathy – and Why They Matter
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This is love.

To be someone’s best friend requires a minimum investment of time. More than that, though, it takes emotional energy. Caring about someone deeply is exhausting.

Malcolm Gladwell, The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference (via fyp-psychology)

All art comes from terrific failures and terrific needs that we have. It is about the difficulty of being a self because one is neglected. Everywhere in the modern world there is neglect, the need to be recognised, which is not satisfied. Art is a way of recognising oneself.

This is what love does: It makes you want to rewrite the world. It makes you want to choose the characters, build the scenery, guide the plot. The person you love sits across from you, and you want to do everything in your power to make it possible, endlessly possible. And when it’s just the two of you, alone in a room, you can pretend that this is how it is, this is how it will be.

I am lonely, yet not everybody will do. I don’t know why, some people fill the gaps and others emphasize my loneliness.

Anyone who knows me,
should learn to know me again;
for I am like the Moon,
you will see me with new face everyday.

“Too Intense”

M: It is ALWAYS romance that is difficult.

D: Could it be that you get bored easily?

M: I do not get bored. I’m told by men that I’m ‘too intense.’

D: What is considered ‘too intense’?

M (with a knowing, startled smile and a confident voice): The depth of my emotions, and my ability to express them.

Easy Girls

“Men will always return to a woman who’s easy.”

– Disgruntled Ex-Girlfriend-of-an-Ex-Boyfriend to me, via Twitter

“She’s right though. Why would you want to be with someone who makes life difficult?”

-True friend to me, via text message